Over the Winter months I find it far too easy to sit myself down into a fashion rut. With no high school Mean Girls kicking me off their table if I’m not wearing pink or following the rules, blacks and greys become go to colours, and chucking on sweaters on a daily basis seems totally acceptable. Sweaters are super cosy and can look great over the colder months, but right now I’m over it. The days are slowly but surely staying lighter for longer, and although Spring still seems so distant, I can’t help but feel hopeful in the knowledge that when it eventually rolls around, it will be brighter and nicer and better.
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Can you believe it’s 2018!? It feels so strange to look back at the things I loved most last month because Christmas already feels so far away! December is always one of the busiest months and one full of spending, gifts, and food, so I have a few favourites to share with you here!
Film Star Bronze and Glow
& The Luxury Palette, Dolce Vita
If you read my What I Got For Christmas post you’ll know that these products were on my Christmas list and I was gifted them both by my wonderful partner. I’ve lusted after these for a while now but just couldn’t justify spending that kind of money on myself (given the amount of beauty products I already have). I was applying these products a mere half an hour after unwrapping them, and have been in love ever since. The bronze and glow is the most subtle yet effective contour product I’ve ever used and is worth every penny.
Another Christmas gift, this set contains shades; Splendore Shimmer, Beso, and Caramello. Beso being my favourite (worn below) is the most perfect, foolproof true red colour. These last amazingly through eating, drinking and anything else you may do on a day to day basis. They are quite drying so I usually remove it myself after around 5 hours (when I find that it starts to become uncomfortable).
I hadn’t heard of MEMI until recently when I was sent a couple of their products to try, but it was love at first sight. The Millennial palette contains the most gorgeous shades and hosts a perfect mixture of both mattes and shimmers, and the lipstick is nude which works well with pretty much any make up look! Another bonus is the packaging which has a really high end feel to it, I particularly love that the palette features a lovely big mirror which is just the right size to actually be able to utilise (unlike most palette mirrors I own).
LUSH Butterbear Bath Bomb
Whenever the cold Winter weather hits, I love treating myself to a bath and pamper evening. I’ve loved using Butterbear recently because its just so simple and faff free! Theres no dramatically coloured water or glitter floating around you, but this bath bomb contains cocoa butter so not only does it smell delicious, but it also leaves your skin feeling super soft (which is always handy at this time of year).
Sage and Onion Stuffing is literally my favourite part of a Christmas dinner. I’m obsessed with the stuff and M&S or Waitrose definitely do it best.
Terry’s Chocolate Orange
The original Terry’s Chocolate Orange are basically a Christmas tradition in our house. Its not Christmas without (at least) one.
There is a more in depth post on this too, but I had the best and most festive day so had to include it! I loved wandering around looking at all of the beautiful Christmas decorations decking the streets of London. Covent Garden had to be the most beautiful. As you can see looking at the sky, we chose the most perfect day to go, of course it was cold, but it was also sunny and fresh!
I hope you had the best Christmas and I wish you the happiest 2018!
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I don’t know about anyone else, but for me, 2017 has passed as quickly as the blink of an eye. When one year ends and another begins, I’m left with a strange sense of finality that comes with the clean slate. One of the ways in which we make sure to move forward is by learning from our experiences. These are the biggest of my own 2017 life lessons.
Its Okay to Take a Break
I’m proud of the fact that my first experience of work was at 14 years old. Since then, I’ve always kept myself busy and have enjoyed the independence that comes alongside making my own money. I worked through high-school, college, and my gap year. I worked through my first year of university at UEA and for two years after that. For part of 2017 I worked (full-time) alongside blogging, my OU degree and everything else that comes with life; family, friendships, relationships, etc.
It was draining.
I’ve always been proud of my employment and have strived for an impressive answer to the seemingly constant question ‘so what do you do?‘. Thats not to mention that I’m motivated by money and the freedom it provides. Splashing out on luxuries and investing in both short term and long term savings.
I was told early on in the year that I was being made redundant. Instead of finding alternative employment, I decided that it was the perfect opportunity to take a break. I finally realised that I had bitten off more than I could successfully chew and decided to prioritise my degree and my blog. My ability to do this can be contributed to two things. Firstly that I’m very lucky and have people in my life who have supported me. Secondly, all that saving I did whilst earning has allowed me options. Unlike myself, maybe work isn’t something that you need to give up, maybe its a draining relationship, saying yes to someone who asks too much of you, a hobby that you no longer enjoy, the list goes on. If its getting too much then take a break.
This kind of leads into my next lesson which is to…
I’ve learnt the hard way that its better to give your all to fewer things than to spread yourself thin over many. In the later part of 2017, I was trying to do too much and wound up unhappy and irritable. I felt like I had no time to do anything that I actually wanted to do, as all of my time was already committed to work or education- the things that I’d told myself I had to do. Sometimes its okay to turn down opportunities in order to thrive in other ways.
There’s no point in doing something unless you do it properly.
I’ve also learnt that prioritising career opportunities is really important. I was open to working alongside everything else going on, but I turned down jobs because they weren’t right for me at that time. They were too many hours or too demanding for not enough pay… you get the gist. I’ve now found a job that I’m starting in the new year that is exactly right for me, the hours are on my terms and its something I want to do. Sometimes prioritising yourself and saying no is the only way to allow better opportunities to fall into place.
Regaining Self Worth
By learning the above lesson and allowing myself to say no sometimes, I gained an odd sense of power. There are people in every walk of life, who will take advantage of your willingness to say yes if you let them. These people could be your boss, a friend or relative, the lesson is the same- don’t let them! One day, someone pushed me a little too far and asked too much of me and I said no! It was that easy. I realised that saying yes all this time hadn’t helped me in the slightest. It wasn’t appreciated, I wasn’t paid more, and I didn’t even get so much as thank you. My happiness and my health are more important than a job and the momentary offence of someone who I’ve had to politely turn down. I’m worth more, and so are you.
Don’t Copy or Compare
I’m a social media addict. Instagram, Facebook and Twitter obviously have their own benefits, but they can also be a catalyst for comparison. Its so important to remember that everyone is different. A picture on Instagram may have 70k likes but you think her dress is hideous!? The one of the cute shoes only has 20 likes!? People have different likes, different interests, different situations and different goals.
Being able to take inspiration from other people online is definitely a benefit. Draw a line: comparing yourself to them is silly and guaranteed to make you think negatively about yourself. People are ready for different things at different stages of their lives. You don’t know their struggles and the less time you spend trying to compare yourself to someone, the more time you have to work on yourself. This year I’ve spent so much time comparing myself to people. People who were in my academic year and have graduated before me and the blogs of people whose sites have been established over years rather than mine which was started a matter of months ago. Its absolutely pointless! Be confident in yourself and your decisions, all you can do is try to continue to improve on yourself.
I know that none of these lessons are exactly groundbreaking. I do hope however, that they help you in the way that they helped me. They’re reminders to put yourself first, to re-evaluate and to make the changes you need to.
Christmases have such a long, exciting build up. Once Boxing Day is over, I always find it quite a shock to the system to go back to normal. I love spending a day or two after Christmas to have a really good sort out, a new years clean. Beginning a new year fresh and organised is a great feeling. At the end of the year I get rid of anything that I no longer want and make room for all of the lovely new Christmas gifts.